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Romantic Massage
This act of selfless love can be practiced at many
levels, depending on yours and your partner's mood. Just a nice leg rub
while watching TV or a movie is one way to indulge your partner's
pleasure for couples massage. But if you wish to kick it up a notch, get out the massage oil
for both of his or her feet. Almost no other part of a person's body
will better appreciate a wet-with-oil massage . And that is the key
to a supreme foot massage - lots of oil! Yes, a dry foot massage is nice
but massage oil bumps it up to the erotic level!
All this is really just another way that you can keep your
romance active and vibrant. Little acts of kindness and pampering is
what your relationship needs. These small "acts of love" keep at bay any
doubts about whether or not one is really loved. And if your partner has
no fears for his or her love relationship, then you will also become a
recipient of more "acts of love", more often.
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An Erotic Foot Massage
By no means a modern form of stimulation, the foot massage has been around for
thousands of years; in fact, its origins can be traced back some 7,000 years to an
ancient Chinese culture that practised early forms of reflexology. Later established
as an incredibly sensual experience, the foot massage became integrated into the
mainstream sexual behaviour of various civilisations throughout the ages, gaining
heavily in popularity after the emergence of the Kama Sutra in the 10th century A.D.
As such, the erotic foot massage ought not to be viewed as a sexual taboo in modern
society - it is simply another method by which two or more people can enjoy a loving
and healthy sexual relationship.
Erotic foot massages are often used as part of wider sexual activities, which are
combined to form a more complete experience. However, erotic foot massages, if
sufficiently mastered, can also be used as an alternative to sexual intercourse,
which can open new doors of stimulation to many couples. In fact, if performed
correctly, erotic foot massages are perfect for strengthening the emotional bond
between two people, as the practice teaches them to give and take in equal measure.
Furthermore, whilst sex itself can often complicate or strain a relationship, erotic
foot massages encourage people to learn more about their partners at a deeper level;
indeed, the practice requires an intimate level of trust and understanding to be
executed to good effect.
Arguably the best way to learn how to perform an erotic massage is to open
communications with a partner. If a sufficient level of trust, respect and
confidence already exists between two individuals, it is likely that consent would
be given to explore new sensations. Should one partner not wish to experience an
erotic foot massage, it is important that the other respects his or her wishes.
Assuming that agreement has been reached, the erotic foot massage should first be
practised with full clothing (less shoes, socks, tights, etc.). It is crucial that
one person acquires an understanding of the other`s unique physical characteristics,
with contours of the foot being explored in order to identify key pressure points
and areas of sensation. It is also worth noting that feet should be soaked in warm
water and bath salts before the massage.
Typically, the exploratory foot massage is one punctuated by bouts of hysterical
laughter, moments of intense pleasure and even periods of discomfort. Once these
different states have been correctly associated with certain motions and areas of
the foot, it is important to commit the information to memory. As a general
guideline, firm (but not hard) pressure should be applied to all areas, with the
instep requiring a smooth stroking motion of the thumbs as the foot is lightly
clasped in both hands. Both warm and cold lotions can be used interchangeably to
stimulate different sensations and, once a certain level of expertise has been
achieved, the participants can embark on a naked foot massage to heighten the sense
of eroticism. Although erotic foot massages are usually experienced by those in
loving relationships (and a warm environment), it is possible for complete strangers
to enjoy the activity wherever they happen to be, so single people on the Edinburgh dating scene need not miss
out on the fun.
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Then there is the full body massage. If you are truly serious
about sending your partner into bliss-land, then you will want too
consider learning more about massage techniques. Illustrated how-to
books are available for a low-cost method of learning to do the basic
moves. Another good reason to become better informed about massage
methods is that incorrect massage can do some harm.
Giving a full body massage can be an uncomfortable experience
for the masseuse or masseur if they do not have a proper massage table.
Kneeling on the floor or even a soft bed will soon exhaust the massage
giver. Good quality portable massage tables can be purchased for as low
as $120. It is well worth the expense because without one you may soon
require a Chiropractor!
A hand massage can be very erotic when given with
tenderness, much like a gentle scalp massage. Most parts of the head are
great subjects of caress and massage. Brush your fingers gently
across the back of the ears as you run fingers through the hair. Capture
the ears between your thumb and index finger and gently squeeze
different parts of the ear. Roll the thin flesh of the ear tenderly
between these fingers. Don't neglect his or her temples as a gentle
massage of them both simultaneously will cause the recipient to relax
and sigh with pleasure.
Another favorite is a tender buns rub or massage. Little
else can be as enjoyable as a gentle and long naked buns rub. Your lover
will not want you to stop because it is soooo enjoyable and relaxing.
All levels and areas of massage will bring the massage
recipient a step closer to heaven, and each and every massage you
perform is a true act of love.
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Sexual Massage Techniques
by Gabrielle Moore
A sexual massage is just something I LOVE to receive from my partner. It always relaxes my body and my mind, and never fails to stir my center till I’m all wet and ready to have mind-blowing sex!
I’m sure you want your woman to feel this too so I’m going to give you some basic sexual massage moves you can do tonight. Ready?
How to Give Your Woman a Sexual Massage
In addition to ensuring that you have the right environment (i.e., a quiet room, a well-laid out bed or place on the floor, etc.) and equipment (e.g. scented candles, massage oils, etc.), consider making use of fabric or items made of silk, satin and velvet as well. All these different textures can help bring about different reactions from her. If you don’t have them, don’t worry. Nothing can beat the best part of this sexual massage session: you.
Firstly, ask your woman to undress (or better yet, undress her). Another tip here to ensure good hygiene is to give her a warm bath first. Either way, once she’s nude, have her lie face down on the area you prepared for the massage. While she has her back to you, undress as well.
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Use your hot breath.
Make sure your body and hands are not cold and then lie on top of her (you facing the back of her head). Support your weight on your arms (don’t crush her!). This move does three things: it signals the start of the sexual massage by applying pressure on her whole body; it helps to warm her body and prepare it for the massage; and it starts to introduce sexual thoughts into her head because she can feel your penis between her thighs.
Now don’t get carried away here and start sex. Proceed with the sexual massage and you will be rewarded as the sexual tension builds up!
Now, start to breath on her neck and her back. Your hot breath should stimulate her sensitive skin.
Use your fingertips.
Now, pull yourself up and straddle her thighs (your penis resting between the backs of her legs), put some warm oil on your hands and start to massage her back with just your fingertips. Alternate your strokes. Apply hard, pressured ones with light touches.
Palm circling.
Progress from using your fingers to ‘palm circling’, which is basically massaging her back by applying the whole width of your hand. This is a firmer technique that helps her body really relax. As a general rule, never massage her on the bones. Place the palms of both your hands on her back and move them in circles, firmly outward and away from her spine.
Gliding.
Scoot yourself lover down her body. You buttocks should be by her feet now. Now reach to the top of her shoulders and start doing the palm circling massage… but this time, glide down to her ass and start massaging there too. After a few strokes, you can be naughtier with this one.
Reach to the top of her shoulders again but this time, keep your head low so that your face is right in front of her ass. (Like kneeling and bowing to someone.) You can do the palm circling again while breathing hot and heavy against her ass.
A slight – and naughtier variation – would be to lick her ass instead of breathing your hot breathe on it WHILE palm circling her back. (Hey, don’t forget the massage part even while you’re busy sexually arousing her.)
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Thumbing.
Go back to straddling her thighs, sitting up now, and use your thumbs to massage her lower back. You should make short, rapid, alternate strokes with each thumb, moving up and across her ass toward her waist. Continue up the right-hand side of her body all the way to the shoulders. Repeat this on the left side of her body and finish off by going back and concentrating again on her lower back (just above her butt).
Now for the sexual part… continue to thumb massage her while your hands move slowly down her butt. Part her crack and start to thumb massage her anus. She will try to squirm here but be firm! If she can take it, alternate between this massage and breathing your hot breathe on her anus.
Repeat all these back massages as long as you want! Just remember to oil up often as the warm oil and the gliding effect of your skin on hers does a lot of sexual magic!
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