Sexy Ideas                           

   Here you can find a compilation of sexy ideas you can peruse to keep your romance fresh and interesting. Sexy is the key word here and it is a vital part of your romantic relationship. Keeping a sexy demeanor requires that you feel sexy toward your partner at all times. Your grooming, nutritional needs, attire, sufficient rest, attitude, confidence, and especially your feelings of love are all essential to maintain your aura of sexiness whether you are male or female. If you do not feel sexy toward your partner most of the time then you are not maintaining your romance and you are in essence neglecting your partner's physical and emotional needs. Remember that being romantic and feeling sexy takes a real concerted effort; but it is certainly worth the effort!

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Forget the mile high club. Find a secluded beach. After dark on a big blanket, make slow erotic love. This is an unbelievably sexy activity but beware that the laws in most states prohibit public nudity.

Collaborate with your partner on how you can redecorate your bedroom to make a more romantic and sexy atmosphere. Set the sexual stage to your combined personal preferences with soft lighting, maybe mirrors, erotic paintings, satin sheets, wall color, and accessories such as candles and specialized sex furniture.

Here is a trick that will require the men out there to use patience and stealth. This suggestion is truly worth the effort because if you can pull it off successfully your lady will never forget it! Your plan is to bring her to orgasm while she is asleep! Of course she will awaken at the moment of orgasm, but what a way to be woke up! Unfortunately luck will have to be a factor in that you must catch her when sleeping on her back and while she is in her deep sleep cycle. This is commonly known as R.E.M. sleep (rapid eye movement), and is also known as the dream state. If you can catch her in both these conditions begin with the slightest touch with one finger on her mound using a light, slow, circular motion. If she stirs, desist for a moment till REM resumes. Your light circular motion can progress as her unconscious body responds to your administrations. I believe at this point you may be directing her dreams to morph into an erotic dream. She will not differentiate between dream and reality. You will quickly know if success is near. Her reaction afterwards will be excited surprise and you had better be prepared for  a conclusion that involves two conscious participants!

Make a date to help your lady trim/shave/style her pubic hair. When the deed is done you should give it a shampoo and conditioning in the shower. It will make her feel real sexy if you finish by giving her a tender towel- drying while you admire and compliment her new look!

Likewise, next time you shower together she could give his pubes and testicles a thorough shampoo and conditioning. Take it to the next level by soaping up and cleaning each others' butt and butt-hole. Cleanliness is sexiness!

If you celebrate her birthday alone (just the two of you) then a sexy plan is when you go to get her birthday gifts you could come out carrying them with nothing on but a red ribbon and bow tied around your neck!

Either partner could make their mate feel real sexy if you carefully compose a poem or letter which descriptively praises many or all your mates' naked parts. Use as many flattering descriptive comparisons as possible for each part that you admire. An example would be: ---and your breasts with skin of perky white satin are the inspirational aphrodisiac of my eyes with beautiful rose-bud tips that engorge at the nearness of my lips.--- Don't just hand your creation over to your sweetie, send it through the mail and decorate the envelope with love-letter or Valentine-type symbols.

Tell your lady that you have planned a special romantic movie night for the two of you. Make it real special with silk pajamas, chocolate-covered strawberries, candles, wine or Champaign, cheese and crackers, perfume and cologne, and maybe even a little wrapped gift for her. When all is prepared you can get out the DVD you have already purchased. This DVD is a quality sex how-to featuring several really in-love couples. A great alternative to porn, this type of instructive video is done in good taste with real couples who are obviously in love with each other. Not only will these DVDs conjure great libido but you may actually learn something new to try out immediately! Way sexy!

Tell your man on a weekend morning that you are declaring today a "commando" day! No underpants allowed for both of you. This of course has implications of great fun later today. Anticipation is a huge part of feeling sexy. Take this to a higher level by having her wear a pair of remote-controlled vibrating panties when you go out to dinner. Naturally he will yield the remote control. He should keep in mind that with great power comes great responsibility, but not at the cost of great fun! Here is a link where you can choose from many models. Vibrating Panties with Remote Control

Your lady will feel her sexiest when you can't keep your hands off her. When you are doting and fawning and kissing and complementing and in general making her feel good about herself she will melt in your hands! If she feels desired, she will desire you!

Would your lady feel extra sexy if she wore that cashmere sweater you bought her? The one that hugs her beautiful breasts so well? Would you guys like it even better if that sweater was a part of a 50s' look complete with bobby socks and saddle shoes and a short skirt? Who would enjoy it more if she pretended she was your devoted girlfriend?

You can help your special lady feel sexy if you give her a pedicure. After you push the cuticles back, and smooth the nails with a progressive file you should finish by painting them with a polish in the color that she chooses. If you use care and do a good job you can then compliment her on how sexy her toes look!

Help your man feel sexy by dressing provocatively at home and by using subtle sexual teases. Think of something kinky that the two of you have never done and that you would like to try with him. Then say to him "I bet you would like it if I were to ---.

If either of you would like to make your partner feel real sexy then you can prepare a pampering. A suggestion for this could be to prepare a bubble bath with candles, wine, sexy background music and a full body scrub treatment.

Take your sweetie out dancing. How can you not feel sexy when you are dancing with your lady? Just watching her move and dancing close to her is the best aphrodisiac!

Her favorite perfume and a fist full of flowers given just because will sexy her up real good!

An oil-drenched two-foot massage will always get juices flowing.

Ladies, your man will melt with this sexy idea. Tell him you need an "anything you want" coupon. If he asks why tell him it's a secret. When you get one and redeem it, direct him to strip naked and lay across your lap on the couch. He may hesitate thinking that you may want to spank him. Reassure him that such a thing never crossed your mind. When he is finally in position begin to give him a slow, gentle, naked buns caress! Make it a long one. He won't want you to stop. Use this as a foreplay activity and you will most assuredly be rewarded.

You guys out there are missing out if you never speak to your lady about your dreams and aspirations; the one or ones that you are passionate about. Most women will find your enthusiasm for your planned future project is way sexy and you may get seduced as a result!

Check out our workshop #20 (from sidebar "Free Romantic Workshop) to get suggestions on making romantic/sexual wagers with your sweetie. This sexy idea has huge potential for major booty if you are good at making bets!

A great sexy idea you ladies can employ is a strip tease performed for your man with some kind of bump and grind background music. Spring it on him when your mood is right and he will melt in your arms.

The ultimate sexy body massage that will send the receiver into erotic heaven is one using a mink love mitten. This is the ultimate caress of all time, one that your partner will not want you to ever stop!  Ranch Black Finnish Mink Massage Glove/Mitten (Double Sided)

Try a tasty-kiss game with your partner to get you both feeling sexy. Prepare some drinks and small paper cups for this game. Suggestions for drinks can include strawberry daiquiri, lemon-aid, root-beer soda, a hot toddie, white wine, red wine, orange juice, ice-water with a dash of your favorite spice, hot coffee with a peppermint dissolved in it, or whatever you have on hand. One partner sips a chosen drink and swishes it around in his or her mouth before swallowing. Now a passionate kiss is in order so that the other partner can experience the flavor combined with an erotic kiss. Follow each kiss with a water rinse, then the other partner flavors-up with a different drink. Discuss which flavor or flavors were enjoyed the most. Now both of you flavor-up with your choice and resume your tasty-sexy kissing!

Help your lady to feel even more sexy next time you are engaged in foreplay activity with this idea. After you advance to getting her bra off, ask her to lay back and relax as you get out an unused wide sable makeup brush. Now caress all around her breasts with your brush. Make close passes to her nipples, employing slight contact with her aerola to intensify the teasing effect. Leave no part of each breast untreated. Vary your administrations between slow and gentle brushings to vigorous ones with more pressure. Her nipples should be achingly erect by this time. When you feel the time is finally right, do a rapid but gentle flick on both her nipples.

Here is a great foreplay activity that may surprise and delight your man. You will be stimulating his prostate without even touching it. Both partners are directed to be entirely naked. He will lay on his left side on the bed, pull his scrotum out so that it is not squeezed between his legs, and position his knees upward toward his chest. Now the female will spoon up to him from behind and begin stimulating his nipples gently with her fingers. Do this slowly and gently. After a moment or two of this, he is directed to rock his pelvis in a slow and shallow arc while she continues her attentions to his nipples. He will begin to feel his prostate engorge and will likely be surprised at the new sensations he will experience. It is possible that he will achieve a body orgasm at some point, but may not happen on the first try. The prostate will become more sensitive with more stimulation and repeated sessions of this kind will more likely enable the body orgasm.

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