TOP TEN WAYS TO SAY I LOVE YOU

     You can say the words “I Love You” often and in any way you can think of, but; these words will not have any meaning unless they are backed by appropriate and consistent actions! So, to say that you love someone is a good thing in itself but to get the true intent across to the object of your affections, you will have to show that what you say is a sincere and heartfelt emotion. Everyday interactions are the true test for your spoken affection. With these thoughts in mind here is a better title for this page.

TOP TEN WAYS TO SHOW THAT YOU LOVE SOMEONE 

10. FLIRTING. A good way to show your affection is to interact and flirt with your partner. This is a fun activity that can include verbally suggestive comments, facial expressions of mirthful endearment, and little physical contacts that suggest an amorous intent. The whole idea is that you are displaying clues that you are enjoying the company of your partner and that he or she is desirable.

 9. YOUR APPEARANCE. If you really love someone you will naturally want to be appealing to that person at all times! Appealing, in a physical sense, involves grooming, washing, dressing, and smiling! These activities hint at your respect as well as your love for someone.

 8. MASSAGE. If you truly love someone, you will want that person to feel good. Massage is one of the best ways to help your love to feel good. It will melt away everyday stresses and relax not only muscles but also the mind. The recipient of a good massage will know your love is real because you have taken the time to learn proper massage techniques and insist upon applying that skill every time your partner shows evidence of needing it.

 7. PAMPERING. Thoughtful acts of kindness and affection will reassure your partner that he or she is truly loved. Prepare a bubble bath, fix a favorite drink, take on what is normally your partner’s chore occasionally, and make efforts to assure comfort in your partner are just a few examples of pampering. Message received; “I am loved”!

 6. THOUGHTFULLNESS. Do you actually listen attentively as your partner speaks? Did you catch that little clue between the lines? Do you always remember that anniversary or holiday? Do you perceive when your partner is sad or upset? Do you try to comfort him or her when they are sad or upset? Yes to these questions says that you are truly in love.

 5. ACTS OF LOVE. Pleasant surprises, individually appropriate gifts of “just because”, love notes discovered in hidden places, flowers or a bottle of wine presented with a smile, an occasional “quickie” offer, special “teddy” surprises, a big long hug for no reason at all are little acts of love to be cherished by both partners in a loving relationship.

 4. ENCOURAGEMENT. As an equal partner, do you encourage your significant other to succeed in their dreams and aspirations? Do you boost their self esteem and tell them that there is no doubt as to their ability to succeed? Do you offer help as proof of your support? These are the things of love!

 3. COMPLIMENTS. Are you on the lookout for sincere reasons to compliment your sweetie? Little things like: “that was well said”, or “you are so thoughtful”, or “I love your new hairstyle”, or “you smell very nice”, or even “hi good looking” are endearing things to say when love is in your heart.

 2. TENDERNESS. To gently run your fingers through your partner’s hair, look deeply into their eyes, touch his or her cheek, or hold hands as you speak intimately to your loved one is to demonstrate your love in a very strong manner. It’s the little things that prove your true love, just like in the song “It’s in his kiss”.